zondag 20 april 2014

Eurovision 2014: my top 5

In a few weeks time it will be time for the Eurovision Song Contest again. 10 years ago this would have been a really exciting moment with a lot of pleasant (and unpleasant) surprises on the day itself, but nowadays it's very easy to listen to all songs in advance and pick your favorites. And that is exactly what I did. Here is my top 5:

5. Switzerland (Sebalter - Hunter Of Stars)

I can't help it: I just like all Swiss entries for Eurovision. Maybe it's due to their extensive selection process, maybe I just like Swiss music in general. Anyway, the past 4 years Switzerland has been in my top 5 of favorite Eurovision songs and this year is no different. I doubt that this song will win finish top 5 in the real contest as well, but the whistling adds something extra and makes the song stand out. My prediction is that Sebalter does have the potential to make it to the final with a good live performance, but if they do, they're probably going to end in the bottom regions there.



4. Sweden (Sanna Nielsen - Undo)

I already knew Sanna Nielsen and liked her music (and so did you guys, since she finished fourth in ISC#3 with her song "Empty Room"). And now not only the readers of my blog but Eurovision fans from all over the world will get to know Sanna's music. Her song "Undo" is among the top favorites according to the bookmakers. I'm afraid that there is too much competition on the sad love songs-department for her to win the contest, but she will certainly get a good result with this beautiful love ballad.



3. Finland (Softengine - Something Better)

After Switzerland, Finland another country that is often in my personal top 5. I realize that this song is just my personal taste and I'm afraid that these guys are going to struggle to reach the final. But I will certainly be enjoying their performance in the semi finals.



2. Denmark (Basim - Cliche Love Song)

The host country of Eurovision will be represented by a young man named Basim, who is singing a very catchy pop song. He is showing that a song doesn't need to be complicated to be a candidate for the victory.
If you ask me, Denmark may well go for a second victory in a row.



1. Latvia (Aarzemnieki - Cake To Bake)

Cakes seem to be an important topic at this year's edition of Eurovision. Teo from Belarus sings about how he's tired of being called "sweet cheesecake" by his girlfriend and Jöran is singing for Latvia about baking a cake as well. This song is my personal favorite in the song contest.

They are the least likely to win the contest according to bookmakers, but for sure they will give a happy, summery feeling to the viewers of the Eurovision Song Contest.


zondag 13 april 2014

The musical journey continues!

And here I am, back after an amazing summer and an even more amazing travel to South America. I am currently writing down my travel stories and plan to post them next weekend. First, I will continue the musical journey around the world that I started at the beginning of this year. In this post I will share some nice songs from all over the world.

Indila - Dernière Danse (France)

The first song I'm sharing with you is a huge hit right now in France. Even though it's not really my kind of music, I can understand why. Even though she's well in her thirties, this is only the first solo single by Indila (real name: Adila Sedraia) and there's not a lot of information available about her online. Hope you will enjoy the song by this French mystery woman...


Satellite Stories - Scandinavian Girls (Finland)

Through my own International Song Contest I've already shared some of my favorite music from other countries. Satellite Stories (3rd place in ISC #4) has really become one of my favorite bands now. They make that typical kind of indie music that I like. Their songs remind me of bands like Vampire Weekend, The Wombats and Two Door Cinema Club. In February these guys were coming to the Netherlands and I saw them live. They were amazing. :)


Celeste Buckingham - Never Be You (Slovakia)

You may also remember the Slovak entry in ISC#4: Celeste Buckingham. I listened to some more songs by her and also became a fan of this young woman. Buckingham was born in Switzerland (from a Swiss mother and an American father, which explains her non-Slovak sounding last name) and has been living in Slovakia for the biggest part of her life. She barely reached the top 10 in the Czechoslovak version of Idols, but I'm glad that she kept on singing. Just listen to the song below and you will see why. 


If you liked this song and want to hear her duet with the famous Slovak rapper Majk Spirit, click here.

Ziyoda - Kun Tong (Uzbekistan)

Up next a song from the relatively unknown but very beautiful country of Uzbekistan. Ziyoda (or as her passport says: Ziyoda O’tkirovna Qobilova) is a famous singer and actress in Uzbekistan. She has a voice that reminds me a bit of Shakira. This song may not be the most special song ever, but it's always nice to hear what kind of music people listen to in a country like Uzbekistan, right?


maandag 7 april 2014

Being a woman online: a social experiment

The internet has made it a lot easier to get in touch with new people from other countries. This has many advantages. One can learn a lot from other cultures and meet many interesting people online. However, there is one disadvantage. Every horny and dirty-minded (or just lonely and hopelessly romantic) man has the possibility to contact thousands of women all over the world as well.

A couple of weeks ago a friend from Interpals, a website created for “meeting penpals, language partners, travel buddies or just plain old fashioned friends” online, told me she recently received a marriage proposal via this website. After joking a bit about what would happen if she would actually say yes to this proposal and marry this man from an undisclosed Arab country we came to the conclusion that it’s not always easy to be a woman online. I got curious and wanted to experience what it’s like to be a woman online. I came up with the idea to do an experiment. I would create a fake profile on Interpals for a few days to see what it’s like to be a woman online.

Experiment setup

First, I needed to fill in some fake personal details for my profile. I decided to call myself Maria the coming days and chose to be born on 25 June 1990 in a city in the center of Poland. Why Poland? No idea. It just came to me. I googled a casual picture of an ex-Miss Poland which could be my profile picture. Next, I had to write an “About me”-section. To keep this fake girl as boring as possible, I just wrote “Hi, I’m Maria from Poland.”. There are thousands of Polish members on Interpals who actually put in effort to make an interesting profile, so this profile should not stand out based on what was written there.

I was going to test 2 hypotheses:
1. A beautiful woman gets many messages, even if her profile is boring
2. Even when a woman writes bad things about herself on her profile, men will still be interested in her if she's beautiful.

And of course I was also curious how all those men try to impress a pretty woman.

Let the experiment begin...

To test the first hypothesis I had to do nothing but wait. And I didn't need to wait for a long time. Many people, all of them male, visited the profile of beautiful Maria. In just 20 minutes the profile was visited by 16 men and I got 3 responses, none of which were interesting. They were only writing things like “hi” or “you are cute”. Messages kept on coming in at an extremely high pace. Even if I would have wanted to reply to all these messages, I wouldn't have had enough time to do so. Within just 24 hours after creating this profile I had received 38 messages and the profile had been visited by more than 100 people. In comparison: my own profile with pictures of me and some, without bragging, interesting information about me gets me around 15 page views on a day that I spend a lot of time online and if I'm lucky I get 2 messages from new people on such a day.

The hypothesis that pretty girls get many messages even with a boring profile has been confirmed without a doubt.

Let's be a bad girl!

Now for the next phase of the experiment. I wanted to see if guys actually read the text on a girl's profile or if most of them only look at the pictures. To test this, I added the following text to my profile: I like shopping, maybe a bit too much because I never have money and always have to borrow money from my friends haha. I like to party often, I can drink a lot haha. Also I can be a bit temperamental and jealous sometimes, but if people don't like me for who I am they are not worth it to be my friends, right?

Any rational guy would know to avoid such a girl. She's a golddigger, an alcoholic and has some anger management issues. Not really marriage material, I would say. Ahmet from Turkey had a different opinion though and sent me a message a few hours later with nothing more than the text "will you marry me". Yay! My first marriage proposal! I could have a double wedding together with my friend!

The amount of messages i received in the next day, 16, was significantly lower than the amount of messages I got on the first day of my experiment. What interested me the most was that I only received one funny comment on my profile (so those other men probably didn't read what I wrote or were too lazy to write me a personal message) and that suddenly I got a lot of messages from men in Poland. Maybe the phrase "I can drink a lot" on my profile made me more attractive to them? Anyhow, this second hypothesis was also confirmed: a lot of men don't seem to care what a girl writes on her profile, as long as she's pretty.

What do men write to pretty girls?

Though nobody wrote dirty things to me, I was still a bit disappointed by the kind of messages I received. Most men write only about themselves and don't ask me questions. Only very few people asked me questions about me, even though I wrote nothing about myself on my profile! In total there were about 2-3 messages out of more than 50 messages that might have been worth it to reply to if I were a real girl. That's a disappointing score and I have to admire the brave girls who maintain a profile on Interpals for putting up with so many uninteresting messages. I wouldn't be able to go through 50 uninteresting messages just to find that one message that is actually worth it...

Funny messages I received

Now for the most fun part of this post, here are some of the most memorable messages I've received:
- One man from Pakistan sent me a video of himself playing guitar.
- One older man from the USA wrote to me his entire life story in three paragraphs and then just finished with "have a nice day", without asking any questions about me. How would he expect a woman to reply to that?
- A man from Germany understood that I would get a lot of "hey how are you"-messages and wanted to be different: he just wrote to me "truth or dare?".
- One man from Poland wrote me a standard message in English. Apparently he hadn't even noticed the flag next to my photo.
- One man from Turkey asked me to marry him without any further comments.
- One guy from Pakistan apologized at the end of his message for his creepy message and admitted that he just didn't know how to start up a conversation with a girl.
- A creepy man from United Arab Emirates wrote me that I had the perfect body to be a belly dancer. And this was my lucky day that day, because this guy was a coach who would love to teach me how to belly dance on Skype... I wonder how many girls will fall for such tricks.

And what surprised me the most: when I search for new penpals myself, I often see the name of one Mexican guy appearing in friends-lists. He must be friends with more than 1000 girls on Interpals all over the world. This same guy actually wrote me a message within 24 hours after I created my profile, stating in Google Translate-Polish how much he wanted to learn Polish and how beautiful he thought I was. Some men are really pathetic and tell all kinds of lies just to impress a girl...


Disclaimer: Some people may think it’s disrespectful to create a fake profile, let men write to you and then never reply. However, the kind of men that would reply to this kind of profile is not really entitled to receiving a nice treatment. Most of them would have forgotten all about Maria already 1 minute after sending this message anyway. By that time they are already way too busy checking out the pictures of the next pretty girl.

zaterdag 5 april 2014

How to travel on a budget? Seven tips from an experienced low-budget traveller

People often ask me how I manage to travel so often. The answer is very simple: I try to spend as little money as possible on my travels. You may think that this goes at the expense of having a comfortable travel. This is not necessarily true, but I admit that sometimes it is more comfortable to go for the first available option than to spend time looking for a cheaper alternative. However, most of the times it's also fun to find those cheap alternatives. An additional benefit is that you are more likely to get in touch with locals or other travelers with a similar mindset.

In this post I will tell you seven tips on how to travel cheaper and have more fun while traveling. I hope they will be useful for you.

1. Book your flight as cheap as possible

You can already save a lot of money before your travel even starts. If your destination is close, consider low-cost airlines such as RyanAir, EasyJet, GermanWings and WizzAir when purchasing your ticket. The seats in these planes are fine, so why pay more for the same flight at another airline? The only difference is that you don't get a free meal with most low-cost airlines, but food and drinks are available during the flight. Even if you decide buy the most expensive meal on board your total fare would still be cheaper than the cheapest alternative in most cases. The best thing though is to eat something at home or to bring food with you on the plane. You are not allowed to bring liquids on board, but you are allowed to bring your own sandwiches, cookies and chocolate on the plane.

If you are flexible with your travel dates or departure/arrival destination, it pays off to check out www.skyscanner.com. This website allows you to compare your options very easily by allowing you to type country names instead of airport names in the "from" and "to" fields and by allowing you to choose the option "whole month" or even "whole year" instead of inflexible travel dates. Another advice is to regularly check websites that often have lists with discount tickets. I know that in Holland we have www.ticketspy.nl and in Czech Republic they have www.akcniletenky.com. It can be useful for you to know a similar website from your own country, especially if you are flexible with your destinations.

2. Never change money in advance when traveling to a cheaper country

This tip is very useful for people who live in a western country, like the Netherlands. When you exchange your money in a western country you usually pay a fixed service fee AND you get a bad exchange rate, especially if the currency you are looking for is rare in your own country. The best thing to do then is to bring euros (or dollars, for some countries outside of Europe) to your holiday destination and exchange the money there. If the euro is not your own currency: ALWAYS change the money you have left at the end of your holiday back to euros instead of your home currency and keep your euros in a special box at home so you can use them on another travel.

Another piece of advice: NEVER change money on the streets. People may come up to you and offer you good exchange rates, but most likely they will still rip you off in one way or another. Always exchange your money at an office that has its rates written down outside and count your money while you are still at the desk. Even if the cashier counts it for you, do your own recount to make sure that the amount is correct.

A final piece of advice: if you are arriving in a new country on a Sunday, make sure you don't have to look for exchange offices. It happened to me once in Ohrid (Macedonia) that I could find no exchange office at all, but I was lucky enough that I could pay for my accommodation in euros and get enough change back in the local currency to buy a cheap meal at the local McDonald's.

It's also recommended not to use ATM's abroad very often and to get big amounts when you do. Most banks charge you a fee of 2-4 euros per transaction, on top of the bad exchange rate they are offering.

3. Save on accommodation!

When you are traveling alone, it's ideal to stay in hostels. Hostels are a great place to meet other travelers. For those of you who have never been to a hostel: hostels are hotels with big dorm rooms where 3 or more people can sleep. You pay just for your bed and because you share your room with other people a hostel is a lot cheaper than a hotel. If you want to book a hostel, just go to www.hostelworld.com, enter your destination, find a hostel you like based on your requirements and just book it. Alternatively, you can just write down the names and addresses of your favorite hostels and not book anything. I prefer to do it this way, because it gives you the flexibility to change your plans while you are traveling if you get some advice from locals, other travelers or hostel staff. Another advantage is that if you can't find your most preferred hostel, you don't need to search for it and can just go to another hostel.

An even more fun way to save on accommodation costs is to go Couchsurfing. Via www.couchsurfing.com you can find people at your destination who are offering you a place to sleep for free (traditionally a couch, but there are also many people who have beds or inflatable mattresses). Usually your "host" will take you out to see the city, or at least give some advice. Which brings me to the next tip I have for you:

4. Meet up with and talk to locals

The best and most awesome way to travel is to meet many locals. They can tell you about all the good places in their city (including the ones tourist guides usually won't tell you about!) and explain everything about local food and traditions. Moreover, they can give you advice on how to use local public transportation as well. Compared to eating only in tourist places and joining expensive city tours for tourists, meeting up with a local (or just talking to them in a bus, on a plane or while you both are waiting for something) can definitely save you some money. But more importantly: these meetups are often what you will remember most about a trip. I will never forget how talking to a random man at a bus station caused me to make an 8-hour road-trip through the desert in Oman with 3 strangers. Or how I ended up spending an entire evening in a pizzeria in Kenya with 4 students I met on a local bus. So my advice: don't be shy or scared to talk to strangers while traveling. Be open-minded about meeting new people. This attitude might just give you a memory that will last for a lifetime.
Please do use common sense though and try to figure out whether this person is genuinely curious about you or just wants something from you.

5. Eat local food in small restaurants or on the street

A lot of tourists eat most of their meals abroad in big restaurants. They eat regular meals that they are used to eat in their home country or go to the touristic places where they sell local food for a high price. The best idea is to look for a place a bit more out of the center that has many local people inside. Getting advice from a local could help you with this. The receptionist of your ho(s)tel may also be able to help you, but you can never be sure whether he has ties with a certain restaurant. For sure you should NOT go to touristic restaurants that offer really cheap meals (especially if you ever find yourself in Aguas Calientes) or restaurants where nobody is sitting inside while it's dinner time. In both cases eating there would most likely not be good for your health.

In some countries you can also buy good food on the streets. This food is in some cases even better than the food you are getting in restaurants, but you should always be careful about hygiene. Make sure that you see how the salesman is cooking the food and that you agree with his methods before you buy anything from him.

6. Do volunteer work during your holiday

Many people are interested in doing volunteer work abroad. Most of these people drop out when they see the high prices that most organisations are asking their volunteers to pay. I have one organisation they need to know about: Service Civil International. At www.workcamps.info you can find more than 500 short-term volunteer camps abroad (projects usually last around 2 weeks). As a volunteer you are expected to work 5 or 6 hours per day together with other volunteers from all over the world on a charity project. You can search for a project yourself, so you can also choose the kind of work you will be doing and your destination. You are required to pay a sum of around 100 euros (depends on the local branche of SCI in your home country) and all meals and accommodation are usually included. In the weekends you have free time to visit nearby tourist attractions or enjoy some relaxation together with the other volunteers. And you book your own flight ticket, so you can have as much time as you want before or after the project to visit the country or travel around a bit. So if you were ever interested in doing volunteer work abroad but never followed through, then this is your chance.

7. Be creative: use your own talents

This last one is a difficult one for me to describe as every person has different skills and expertise, but let me give you some examples of how other travelers managed to travel cheaply using their own talents.

- One Dutch man has traveled to Africa many times and it didn't cost him a penny. How did he do it? Simple: he bought an old Mercedes or Toyota (both very strong cars) in the Netherlands and drove them to Africa. Once in Africa, he could sell these cars for high prices because these brands are very popular in Africa. Moreover, this guy had a story to tell, so he was often invited by locals and offered free food and a house to stay the night.
- It can also help to learn more than just a few basic phrases in a language. Especially if you travel to a country where the people are supposed to be quite hospitable, it can pay off if you speak the language of locals (actually in more than just a financial way).
- One time when I was abroad I met an woman in her forties who told stories of her travels around Latin America when she was younger. She stayed in a touristic city in Mexico for a longer time when she ran out of money. She had to find a way to make money quickly and decided to try out being a "living statue" in a touristic place. According to her story, she was among the first people to try being a living statue and she earned so much money that she even had to take some of the money home at the end of her travel.
- If you are handy or good at gardening/farming, you can find very cheap working holidays at websites like www.staydu.com or www.wwoof.net.

That would be all from me. Do you have any more tips you want to share? Feel free to write them in a comment!